I had a few nights away last weekend, spending a night at my parents place with the family. We then headed to my nephews first birthday party/christening in Scone, and then the 4 kids and I ventured on to Gunnedah to visit my Aunt and Uncle for 2 nights. It was nice and cool there, and even had to head out to buy Miss 7 a cardigan....and for those that know that Gunnedah area, to have a cool day in Summer is just not normal! It was lovely though as I wasnt really looking forward to that sticky heat that you get there, especially when I still have the twins being breastfed and climbing all over me!
I managed to have a "me" night last night with a gorgeous friend of mine, Skye. For all you mums out there, you would know how rare these nights/moments are! I am aiming for this new year to have one night a week as "me" time....I figure if I aim for one a week thats a start and hopefully it will truly happen at least once a month! I am doing well...19th of January and this was my first one! YAY! We went and saw "We bought a Zoo" I know it was only PG but we both really enjoyed it. It was heartwarming and left you feeling warm and fuzzy inside, which can only be a good thing! It has some beautiful messages which would reach out to those that were listening....I know Skye and I were.
So Im throwing a huge dinner party tomorrow night. Not huge in numbers...its only 1 other family.....but huge in what I am doing. I have sent out invites. The kids are having a PJ/Movie party with lots of yummies in the lounge room....the adult are "Cocktail" and I am doing 4 courses, a wine to match each one and the Entree, Main and Dessert they get choices...so I have even done a menu up in French.....have I bitten off more then I can chew.....ha ha ha ha.... who knows.....time will tell.....will let you know :-)
It has been a week or 2 of lessons for me with dealing with family and friends and I grateful for the ability to be constantly growing as a person, learning how to deal with these situations whilst being surrounded with love and support. These lessons are not always easy and I dont always understand them....one thing I have learnt though in life, is we are not always meant to. Sometimes its about patience. I found this "sign" which I thought I would share with you.
Take Care Of You xxx
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